Friday, November 28, 2008

A ThankFULL Week

We started out this week of Thanksgiving with a lot to be THANKFUL for . . .

First:  good insurance and doctors that tried really hard to get to the bottom of Christian's hives episode.  Thankfully, he is not proving to be allergic to anything in particular, but may have a bit of asthma.

We finally got to go see "Wicked" and it was awesome!  I am thankful that we have a wonderful theater, was able to get great seats at a good price, and had the afternoon off to go see the show!  We loved it and during intermission, Brooke asked if we could see it again.

Thanksgiving Day!!
The beautiful, sunny day started off with the annual Turkey Bowl football game at the park.  A lot of people showed up to play, and it turned out to be great fun.  
Our family fun day started at 10:00 a.m. with the arrival of cousin Angie.  She is so much fun and we all love her.  We went to the movie at 11:00 to see "Bolt" and met Andrea and Adam there.  That is such a cute movie.
We came back to our house to finish up the Thanksgiving Feast which was fab-u-lous!

You can't have olives without doing olive fingers!
Ahhhh . . . the pies:  chocolate, traditional pumpkin, apple cranberry, and gingersnap carmel pecan pumpkin cheesecake.  Yum-0!  
The chocolate was the first to be devoured.  
The newlyweds!  Brandon and Renee!  (so cute!!)
Cousin fun:  I love how they all get together and goof off.  I think Domonique was under the pile for the better portion of the night.
Brooke teaching Angie "lemonade, crunchy ice"

The after-feast-and-dessert activity:  gingerbread houses!!!!!

We had a lovely Thanksgiving!  I am thankful to be surrounded by wonderful family.

Friday we brought down all the Christmas decorations from the attic . . . oh the fun begins.
Thankfully we finished up pretty much all the decorating (except for the tree) and the house was cleaned up in time to feed the missionaries.  Nothing like having a deadline to get things done.

Sunday, November 16, 2008

SiNgLe PaReNtInG bItEs

It happened again.
Why not? It's now become a tradition. Why would anyone want to stay healthy when John is out of town? Remember last summer? Nearly everyone got sick at some point each time he was away in June, and again in July.

Well, last week when John was in Kansas City, Christian awoke on Wednesday with with a bizarre rash.  Off to the pediatrician we go!  Luckily it wasn't chicken pox, but urticaria, or more commonly known as hives.
It spread, and itched, and spread, and itched, and spread, and itched, 
trying an Aveeno Oatmeal bath
and spread, and swelled, and itched, and swelled, and spread day after day
until it reached every little inch of his tiny body, ending with his feet on Saturday and swelling them so that he could not bare to stand or walk.  My heart broke every time I looked at him.  He was such a trooper and was so strong even though he was in pain and tremendous discomfort.

So John comes home for a day to witness this, then takes off again, this time for SWEDEN, only to have Madison vomit all over the deep shag carpet and pillows not even 4 /12 hours into his flight!  Just as he was driving away, he asked, "now who is going to get sick next?"  Like it's a joke . . . uh, no - it's now tradition!

I threw away the pillows, called my neighbor at nearly midnight to ask for my carpet shampooer back that she was borrowing and spent the middle of the night cleaning up after yet another mess.  Oh the joys of parenting!!!!  I won't even go into the details of the dog (we had my niece Amber and her dog here for the weekend) that kept trying to eat the vomit.  I had to wake Amber up to take care of him and clean the vomit off him so I could clean up Madison and my house.  What a mess!
It must have been something Madison ate, because she was totally fine after the violent spewing session.  I am the one still recovering, I think.

Sacrament was so fun with five kids - one who was so tired and just wanted to sleep on my lap, and the other two who are either wanting to fight over the same toys or are squealing with delight - either way was totally disruptive.
John texted me during Sacrament meeting to say he arrived in Sweden, and I texted him back: 
 Single parenting bites!

Thursday, November 13, 2008

The Very Hungry Caterpillar

Once there was a lovely garden, newly built - 
newly planted for the family to enjoy.

Broccoli, a family favorite, was lovingly planted and tended with hopes 
to enjoy the fresh, organic, home-grown bounty in the winter.  The children were excited to find the plants flourishing with giant leaves emerging from the freshly weeded soil.

Then little holes started to appear . . . 

The holes started getting bigger, and the leaves started disappearing.

Until the next day there were not any leaves left.

The Very Hungry Caterpillar, and all his friends, were found, plucked off and were put to good use by becoming a little science project for two four-year-old little boys with a magnifying glass.
The children now have a daily assignment to make sure all of the Very Hungry Caterpillar's cousins are not visiting.

Thursday, November 6, 2008

A Great Article About Prop 8

This was written by Kevin Hamilton.  John worked for him for several years when we were first married (he owned Prime Matrix).  He was our stake president, then went on to serve as a mission president in Belgium.  I thought it to be an excellent article, especially since we are not out of the woods yet; there is a lot of emotion out there, as well as protests, marches, law suits, etc.  Our temple had to close due to the protesting today and our people have had some altercations and violent acts directed towards them.  


Dear Friends,

In the aftermath of the recent election, we may find ourselves oddly on the defensive regarding our support for the Yes on Proposition 8 cause. Our young people have been especially subject to mean spirited comments by high school friends and teachers. We have nothing to be ashamed of. We did nothing wrong. In fact, we did everything that a civic minded American can and should do. I have put together a few facts that help me to appreciate our position better. For example:

1. Mormons make up less than 2% of the population of California. There are approximately 800,000 LDS out of a total population of approximately 34 million.

2. Mormon voters were less than 5% of the yes vote. If one estimates that 250,000 LDS are registered voters (the rest being children), then LDS voters made up 4.6% of the Yes vote and 2.4% of the total Proposition 8 vote.

3. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Mormons) donated no money to the Yes on 8 campaign. Individual members of the Church were encouraged to support the Yes on 8 efforts and, exercising their constitutional right to free speech, donated whatever they felt like donating.

4. The No on 8 campaign raised more money than the Yes on 8 campaign. Unofficial estimates put No on 8 at $38 million and Yes on 8 at $32 million, making it the most expensive non-presidential election in the country.

5. Advertising messages for the Yes on 8 campaign are based on case law and real-life situations. The No on 8 supporters have insisted that the Yes on 8 messaging is based on lies. Every Yes on 8 claim is supported.

6. The majority of our friends and neighbors voted Yes on 8. Los Angeles County voted in favor of Yes on 8. Ventura County voted in favor of Yes on 8.

7. African Americans overwhelmingly supported Yes on 8. Exit polls show that 70% of Black voters chose Yes on 8. This was interesting because the majority of these voters voted for President-elect Obama. No on 8 supporters had assumed that Obama voters would vote No on 8.

8. The majority of Latino voters voted Yes on 8. Exit polls show that the majority of Latinos supported Yes on 8 and cited religious beliefs (assumed to be primarily Catholic).

9. The Yes on 8 coalition was a broad spectrum of religious organizations. Catholics, Evangelicals, Protestants, Orthodox Jews, Muslims – all supported Yes on 8. It is estimated that there are 10 million Catholics and 10 million Protestants in California. Mormons were a tiny fraction of the population represented by Yes on 8 coalition members.

10. Not all Mormons voted in favor of Proposition 8. Our faith accords that each person be allowed to choose for him or her self. Church leaders have asked members to treat other members with "civility, respect and love," despite their differing views.

11. The Church did not violate the principal of separation of church and state. This principle is derived from the First Amendment to the United States Constitution, which reads, "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof . . ." The phrase "separation of church and state", which does not appear in the Constitution itself, is generally traced to an 1802 letter by Thomas Jefferson, although it has since been quoted in several opinions handed down by the United States Supreme Court in recent years. The LDS Church is under no obligation to refrain from participating in the political process, to the extent permitted by law. U.S. election law is very clear that Churches may not endorse candidates, but may support issues. The Church has always been very careful on this matter and occasionally (not often) chooses to support causes that it feels to be of a moral nature.

12. Supporters of Proposition 8 did exactly what the Constitution provides for all citizens: they exercised their First Amendment rights to speak out on an issue that concerned them, make contributions to a cause that they support, and then vote in the regular electoral process. For the most part, this seems to have been done in an open, fair, and civil way. Opponents of 8 have accused supporters of being bigots, liars, and worse. The fact is, we simply did what Americans do – we spoke up, we campaigned, and we voted.

Hold your heads up high – you did a great job on this most important cause. We will have more opportunities in the future to participate in our democratic process. Let’s remember the lessons learned and do an even better job next time.

These are my personal opinions and thoughts; any errors are mine and in now way reflect official Church policy or doctrine.

Thanks,
Kevin Hamilton

Little Boys


What do you do when you are the lone boy surrounded by girls? 
(Besides beg to play at a friend's house everyday)

You raid your sisters' headband box and fashion a sword-holder
and warrior headband!
There's nothing like being prepared to fight off a villain at any given moment, 
or to protect your admiring baby sister.

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Yes on Prop 8!!

We're all doing our part! 
Signs in our front yard 

A sign in our backyard . . . John had fashioned this one - the others kept getting stolen.  The opposition is fierce!  Hopefully this will be too tall to be reached easily from the other side now.

We've 'waved signs' on the busy street corner near the freeway . . . mostly positive responses:  friendly horn-honking and thumbs up.  
Yet, again, the fierce opposition mostly was rude, crude, mean, angry and vile.  
Seriously people, who would flip off a two-year old or cuss out a cute four-year-old boy?  Only mean, angry, hateful, bigoted, and intolerant people!!!!! 
 And yet that's what they are calling us . . .hmmmm.

Q1: How Will My Same-Sex Marriage Hurt Your Marriage?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sL2MJ6hah-I&feature=related

Q2: Is same-sex marriage like interracial marriage?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p81mkYOtJMU&feature=related

Q3: Where does it stop?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZEL0f2yuqLo&feature=related

Q4: Can't we have religious marriage and civil marriage?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dF6w2ILsyUA&feature=related

Q5: What public good does marriage provide?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t9cYmAGbREA&feature=related

Q6: Is it healthy to experiment with children?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w5QYnJwQttQ&feature=related

Q7: Haven't experts said same-sex parenting is fine?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q8P3x0UsTNQ&feature=related

Q8: How do we know what kind of families kids need?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tx3IqxKFCp4&feature=related

Q9: Are the Needs of Kids or Adults More Important?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iDOJdIQbGIE&feature=related

Q10: Does Gender Really Matter?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9YmONdhwXCg&feature=related